WORDS OF WISDOM
Today we have a Guest columnist Greg Newhouse.
When you attempt to change for the better, old ghosts will rear their ugly heads.
" Friends" and loved ones will point to your past as an indication of the future. Ever heard these...
You can't hold a job.
You are useless.
Everything you have ever had was given to you.
You just don't fit, you never have
I am miserable
MY FAVORITE!!!---->How are YOU gonna motivate anyone, you can't even motivate yourself?
WATCH AND LEARN
People are used to seeing what they have seen, some say you have to prove it. I think you struggle to make yourself better. You are who you are and getting better.
If you are truly improving and moving forward, let nothing or no one stop you. Listen to good advice, and note when you may be incorrect.
Although, people become used to hearing these negative things. They start to say it to themselves. They question if this is true. Be very aware of people who seek to drag you down. You are stronger, do not absorb their poison of fear, hate and doubt. Stronger still, when you have support systems of more people. People who preferably have mutual trust and faith or at least the same goal. Know that a few people will never think this way and they will continue to be miserable regardless of whatever they do. They chose misery, you don't have to. You cannot motivate a person, that person will chose and persevere on their own. All you can do is help point to some of the answers.
If you aren't right with yourself, fix it, so you can be right with others.
Greg Newhouse is a blogger, Motivational Speaker, and Real Estate Broker. Check out his work on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/NewhouseNow